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Global Report: The state of youth - challenges and opportunities
Youth Month in South Africa, observed in June, honours the youth of 1976 for their role in the fight against apartheid. This year's...

Refilwe
4 days ago6 min read


Happy Father’s Day: You’re Doing Better Than You Think
In a world where absent parenting is heartbreakingly common, your presence matters more than you think.

Mzo Witbooi
Jun 153 min read


A container of gum, hugs and an apology
A container of gum, hugs and an apology

Refilwe
May 203 min read


Finding your path: the power of determination and willpower
“Where there’s a will, there’s a way ” is a proverb that’s transcended generations, for the most part, echoing the power of one’s will to...

Refilwe
May 34 min read


Don’t Mom like me: the journey of parenting with a twist
It’s international Bontle day today!✨✨✨ On this day, 12 years ago at 20:35, I gave birth to a bouncy baby girl. I will sum up my birth...

Refilwe
Mar 73 min read


Dancing to the same tune in marriage
A deep passion for witnessing and experiencing solid family structures exist in our society has long been entrenched in my heart. This...

Refilwe
Feb 204 min read


The Unexpected Price Tag: Exploring the Cost of Befriending the Unknown
The cost of befriending the unknown by taking a leap.

Refilwe
Feb 52 min read


My 2024 Reading List
The biggest misconception about life is wanting to achieve something but not putting in the work to actually see it come to fruition. We...

Refilwe
Dec 30, 20244 min read


When God’s timing disrupts your plans
What joy is it when your plans get disrupted by the move of God?

Refilwe
Dec 2, 20244 min read


Reasons why you should screw it and just do it: lessons from my July reads
Greatest lessons from my July reads

Refilwe
Jul 21, 20243 min read
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Dancing to the same tune in marriage
A deep passion for witnessing and experiencing solid family structures exist in our society has long been entrenched in my heart. This...

Refilwe
Feb 204 min read


Things you need to know this July
Things you need to know this July

Refilwe
Jul 13, 20242 min read


Corporate Shandis – a toolkit to help you survive the corporate world
Today was my first day back at work - what an eventful day it was! The day was a mixed bag filled with melodious “compliments of the new...

Refilwe
Jan 15, 20243 min read


My 2023 reading list
I'm currently busy with my 2023 reflections and in as much as I did well in some areas of my life and smashed my goals, on the...

Refilwe
Dec 30, 20233 min read


Pause. Live.
Reflections from a recent spontaneous trip Is it just me who feels like the days and months have just been moving at the fastest speed...

Refilwe
Nov 28, 20234 min read


We are One.
Whilst doing research on a topic very close to my heart, the concept of oneness kept echoing in my spirit. As a human race, the lives we...

Refilwe
Aug 13, 20233 min read


Shake it off
What are you carrying that’s weighing you down?

Refilwe
Jun 21, 20231 min read


A million little miracles, all around
In our pursuit of positive and impactful change, we journey along life, inspired and challenged by what’s surrounding us.

Refilwe
May 24, 20233 min read


Healing Journey: this too shall pass (Part 2)
This week I continue where I left off by sharing part 2 of the six things I learnt throughout my “this too shall pass” seasons. If you...

Refilwe
May 16, 20233 min read


Staying connected to the main source
What are you rooted in?

Refilwe
Apr 19, 20232 min read


Checklist for perfect motherhood
√ Spotless home √ Children adhere to sleep times √ Always on time for school and events √ Children always “well-mannered” √ Hearty...

Refilwe
Nov 22, 20224 min read


Faith in action
Let me tell you a lil story about faith. When I took leave for a whole week, before a work event, I'd thought I booked my flights. Whilst...

Refilwe
Nov 14, 20224 min read


Spiritual Detox Programme Reflections
Ever had a yearning to feel grounded, but you find yourself soaring on unhelpful activities that further impact negatively on your soul?

Refilwe
Oct 9, 20226 min read


Blooming time is here
What a privilege it is to witness another spring season. For a number of reasons, spring is my favourite season. I love the sound of the...

Refilwe
Sep 1, 20223 min read


Shhh... I don't want to talk
Ever felt the need to be quiet and not utter a single word? But how do you do it when you are a mom, a wife, a 9-5er, an entrepreneur, a...

Refilwe
Aug 11, 20224 min read


Tough decisions: the journey to financial freedom
Have you ever considered that your financial breakthrough is tied to the decisions you have to make today?

Refilwe
Jul 11, 20224 min read


Holding God Accountable
Feeling disappointed, left out in the cold, alone and fearful? Can you hold God to account for what's happening to you?

Refilwe
Jun 12, 20224 min read


The bond between self-leadership and self-awareness
Are you struggling with self-awareness? Here are 4 easy tips to kickstart your transformation journey.

Refilwe
Jun 2, 20224 min read


Extraordinary living for ordinary peeps
We are all ordinary people with extraordinary capabilities. BUT, unless you believe in your extraordinary capabilities ...

Refilwe
May 23, 20222 min read


Make things happen
Do you feel like life is passing you by? Here are some tips on making things happen!

Refilwe
Mar 31, 20224 min read
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