Pause. Live.
Reflections from a recent spontaneous trip Is it just me who feels like the days and months have just been moving at the fastest speed...
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"A word after a word after a word is power."
- Margaret Atwood
Refilwe
- Nov 19
- 4 min
You guys are not serious!
This was Bontle’s reaction to our affirmative “we have nothing planned” response when she asked us what we were doing for our upcoming...
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Refilwe
- Aug 13
- 3 min
We are One.
Whilst doing research on a topic very close to my heart, the concept of oneness kept echoing in my spirit. As a human race, the lives we...
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Refilwe
- May 24
- 3 min
A million little miracles, all around
In our pursuit of positive and impactful change, we journey along life, inspired and challenged by what’s surrounding us.
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Refilwe
- May 16
- 3 min
Healing Journey: this too shall pass (Part 2)
This week I continue where I left off by sharing part 2 of the six things I learnt throughout my “this too shall pass” seasons. If you...
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Refilwe
- May 9
- 3 min
Healing Journey: this too shall pass (Part 1)
Sometime in March, I was invited by MM Communications to speak to an audience of women from all walks of life on the theme, “this too...
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Refilwe
- Mar 4
- 3 min
Won't you live a lot more? The yearning for a zest of life
Leaving something life-sustaining to pursue something life-giving is hard because we tend to look at life from the lens of “I need plenty...
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Refilwe
- Nov 22, 2022
- 4 min
Checklist for perfect motherhood
√ Spotless home √ Children adhere to sleep times √ Always on time for school and events √ Children always “well-mannered” √ Hearty...
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Refilwe
- Oct 19, 2022
- 4 min
Growing pains
Growing up I always felt like something was missing. If it wasn’t a close-knit, happy family, creating joyful memories together it was me...
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Refilwe
- Aug 11, 2022
- 4 min
Shhh... I don't want to talk
Ever felt the need to be quiet and not utter a single word? But how do you do it when you are a mom, a wife, a 9-5er, an entrepreneur, a...
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Refilwe
- May 2, 2022
- 3 min
An ode to Mom
On this day (2 May 2015) we laid my mom to rest. I used to think that the day she passes on, I would definitely follow. I said this, not...
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Refilwe
- Jan 30, 2022
- 4 min
How expectant are you in your parenting?
No expectations, no disappointments, right? Well, as much as this can take any course, I believe that in parenting, we do and should have...
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Refilwe
- Jan 17, 2022
- 3 min
Back to school cheat guide: Lunch box edition
Following multiple disastrous takes on prepping school lunch for my daughter, I have finally found some rhythm. To be honest, I sobered...
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Refilwe
- Apr 3, 2021
- 3 min
5 “Unconventional” things I’ve taught my daughter
They are “unconventionally” necessary! A UNICEF report on early childhood development has outlined that the formative years, ages from 0...
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