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"A word after a word after a word is power."
- Margaret Atwood
Finding your path: the power of determination and willpower
“Where there’s a will, there’s a way ” is a proverb that’s transcended generations, for the most part, echoing the power of one’s will to...
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Don’t Mom like me: the journey of parenting with a twist
It’s international Bontle day today!✨✨✨ On this day, 12 years ago at 20:35, I gave birth to a bouncy baby girl. I will sum up my birth...
Refilwe
Mar 73 min read
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Dancing to the same tune in marriage
A deep passion for witnessing and experiencing solid family structures exist in our society has long been entrenched in my heart. This...
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Feb 204 min read
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The Unexpected Price Tag: Exploring the Cost of Befriending the Unknown
The cost of befriending the unknown by taking a leap.
Refilwe
Feb 52 min read
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My 2024 Reading List
The biggest misconception about life is wanting to achieve something but not putting in the work to actually see it come to fruition. We...
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Dec 30, 20244 min read
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When God’s timing disrupts your plans
What joy is it when your plans get disrupted by the move of God?
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Dec 2, 20244 min read
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Reasons why you should screw it and just do it: lessons from my July reads
Greatest lessons from my July reads
Refilwe
Jul 21, 20243 min read
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Things you need to know this July
Things you need to know this July
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Jul 13, 20242 min read
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An unexpected journey: The Adventures With Bontle story
The untold story of one of Africa's youngest authors.
Refilwe
Jul 7, 20244 min read
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6 valuable lessons to seal first half of the year
I’m sure you’ll agree “time goes by real fast” is an understatement of a phrase. I can’t believe today is officially the beginning of the...
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Jul 1, 20244 min read
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82 days later…
The start of a new year has always brought with it great excitement, in anticipation of what lies ahead. But this year was different for...
Refilwe
Mar 23, 20224 min read
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March Self-Care Guide
Hello March A brand new month - the last month of quarter one - is upon us. I don’t know if it’s just me but it seems time moves really...
Refilwe
Mar 3, 20225 min read
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Want your power back?
Before we go any further, think about the walk of your life and what's in your heart, and then ask yourself these questions: Do I walk...
Refilwe
Feb 23, 20224 min read
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Thinking of giving up?
We’ve all enthusiastically started out on something and just when we hit what seems to be the first stumbling block, we are so...
Refilwe
Feb 17, 20223 min read
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Growing pains
When we set goals, we do so from a deep yearning of wanting to be more than what we are presently.
Refilwe
Feb 9, 20223 min read
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How expectant are you in your parenting?
No expectations, no disappointments, right? Well, as much as this can take any course, I believe that in parenting, we do and should have...
Refilwe
Jan 30, 20224 min read
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What in the balance?
New year, same old. Same old. Right? Not entirely! As the year progresses, holidays over with back to school and work pressures mounting,...
Refilwe
Jan 24, 20224 min read
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Back to school cheat guide: Lunch box edition
Following multiple disastrous takes on prepping school lunch for my daughter, I have finally found some rhythm. To be honest, I sobered...
Refilwe
Jan 17, 20223 min read
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Cultivating a winning mindset
Is what's on your mind holding you from achieving your goals?
Refilwe
Nov 1, 20212 min read
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6 reminders for the new season
YES! Finally! Spring has sprung and we are here, waiting on the flowers to bloom. But don't just wait for the flowers to bloom, join in...
Refilwe
Sep 8, 20212 min read
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My heritage
Heritage Day, celebrated annually on 24 September in South Africa, has become synonymous with adorning of traditional attires to showcase...
Refilwe
Apr 3, 20212 min read
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Unlearning
For as long as I can remember, I've struggled with insecurities. I've struggled with this feeling of not being enough. Not quite good...
Refilwe
Apr 3, 20211 min read
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